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'Hello Beautiful!

I am open to meet my soul mate. Someone that shares my views on Earth Awareness. Someone that seeks also the same qualities for a lasting relationship by approaching another on basis of Equality, Love, Trust, Awareness, inner-standing, Connectedness, Inner peace, Compassion, Intimacy & a Loving & a Caring Heart.

I myself belief in the Divine. That means that I believe that my soul decided with a few spiritual helpers my own personal plan of experiences for this incarnation and that there is a plan laid out in order for me to give back to Others, Earth, and the Cosmos around us.
This is my guiding star in how I approach my life. I want to live my talk, that is that I wish to align my thoughts, words, and actions to shape into my life's mission by experiencing my soul codings as an expression of love.
I truly wish to give back to the Earth, and flora and fauna and heal it where I can. But I like to verify facts as well and come to my own conclusions, finding out my own soul's truth.

If you are interested to travel this path with me then I am looking forward to hearing from you.
For now, I wish you joy and love in all your encounters and may you be blessed with whatever you decide to do,
Aislinn'

Introductie

• Ik ben een vrouw
• En ben op zoek naar een man
• Ik ben 53 jaar
• Jij bent tussen de 38 en 45 jaar
• Ik zoek iemand voor een serieuze relatie of een vriendschap
• Ik ben op zoek naar iemand die een serieuze relatie of een vriendschap zoekt
• Mijn lengte is 163 cm
• Jij bent tussen de 170 en 200 cm
• Ik heb een normaal postuur
• Het postuur van mijn partner is niet van belang.
• Ik heb geen kind(eren)
• Als mijn partner kinderen heeft zijn zij welkom
• Ik woon in de provincie Groningen
• Het maakt me niet uit waar jij vandaan komt
• Ik heb als sterrenbeeld Leeuw
• Het maakt me niet uit wat jij als sterrenbeeld hebt
• Ik heb als chinees sterrenbeeld Hond - Metaal
• Het maakt me niet uit wat jij als chinees sterrenbeeld hebt
• Ik heb misschien nog een kinderwens
• En zoek iemand die misschien nog een kinderwens heeft
• Ik ben van ZO-Aziatische afkomst
• Ik heb geen voorkeur voor de etnische afkomst van mijn partner

Kunst & Cultuur

• Ik hou heel erg van lezen
• Mijn partner houdt van lezen
• Mijn favoriete boeken:I love books very much. Nowadays I have switched to esoteric reading, themes are:
  gnostic, Mayan culture, shamanism in the broadest sense, kabbala, permaculture, colors, aromatherapy, Reiki, Reconnection, Quantum Touch, Tibetan singing bowls, minerals, raw food, cosmology, geology, sacred geometry, auras, angels, etc.
  I love writing my own books as well.
• Vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner van lezen houdt?Yes
• Mijn laatst gelezen boek:Biodanza
• Mijn favoriete schrijver(s):1. Shakespeare
  2. Tolkien
  3. Melchizedek,
  Barbara Ann Brennan ( still working on that one ),
  Currivan,
  Braden,
  Andrews,
  Thich Nhat Hahn,
  Villoldo,
  Linn,
  Dale,
  Bradshaw,
  Gordon,
  Virtue,
  etc.
• Ik hou van films
• Het is voor mij niet van belang of mijn partner van films houdt
• Mijn favoriete films / t.v. programma's:Do not like to watch telly anymore. But was very fond of Disney. I still am at times.
  Lotr, Willow, etc. I like fantasy)
• Vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner van films en televisie houdt?No
• Mijn laatste film:The Hobbit
• Mijn favoriete acteurs en regisseurs:Sean Connery
  Johnny Depp
• Mijn favoriete dichters/gedichten:Emily Bronte
  Erich Kastner
  M. Vasalis
  Rutger Kopland
  + my own poems
• Vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner van poëzie houdt?No
• Mijn favoriete muziek:Missa Criolla
  Sleeping Beauty
  Swing while you sing
  Porgy & Bess
  Norah Jones
  Katie Melua
  Frank Sinatra
  EllaFitzgerald
  Dolphinsong
  Seroka
  More esoteric music nowadays
• Vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner van muziek houdt?I love music, harmonious music. Ik hoop dat het iemand is die van harmonieuze muziek houd.
• Wat ik heb met beeldende kunst:I like art, in all its forms, but I favour harmony in works of art that I would wish to purchase myself.
  At present I am trying my hand at soapstone
• Vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner geïnteresseerd is in beeldende kunst?I love sculptures, paintings etc. as long as my would be partner does not mind my joy in it. I do not mind for him not to enjoy it. Each his or her own, I say. It is not for everyone.
• Mijn theaterbezoek:Drama, classical concerts etc,
• Mijn partner en theater?Not so important. I like the fine arts to transport me to a different level of perception. I guess I am a true lover of true beauty, where ever it may be found. If my would be partner can accept this. He can pursue his own interests, if he has no click with it, while I am enjoying mine. But I prefer to find a person to share these joys with.
• Mijn favoriete musea:Do not really have a favourite museum. I like the outdoors, nature best. That tableau never bores me.
• Mijn partner en musea:Oh see the above.
• Of ik van koken hou en mijn favoriete keuken:I love to eat food that is prepared with love and care.
  At home I am vegetarian. When I am with others I do as the Romans do. I adjust.
  Still the differences in flavours etc. , variety is the spice of life. Not only nurture but also the pleasure to be able to enjoy God's and nature's grace is a feast that I take great pleasure in each day.
• Vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner van koken of lekker eten houdt?I love food very much. To say grace and to be really thankfull for the abundance and Nature's and God's bounty makes a dish so much nicer to eat. I enjoy it so much more and the food tastes so much better that way). Also the subtleties on my palate and be amazed at the way food tastes, looks like, next to the nutritional part always fascinates me. To be honest I am very much into enjoying food. Not always too patient myself to cook, which is a pity since that way I do not always do justice to the dish. But still I can enjoy it and be thankful for the abundance in my life.

Vakantie

• Ik hou van culturele en ontspannende vakanties
• De vakanties waar mijn partner van houdt: culturele en ontspannende
• Ben ik een wintersporter? nee
• Of mijn partner op wintersport gaat is voor mij niet belangrijk.
• Mijn favoriete vakantielanden:I like any place really. As long as there is true beauty to be found such as beautiful nature, cuisine, architecture.
  Usually the journey itself is challenging enough and has it's own rewards.
• Zo omschrijf ik mijn ideale vakantiepartner:Someone to laugh with and who enjoys beauty and adventure and relaxation
• Houd ik van kamperen? ja op rustige campings in de natuur
• Het is niet belangrijk of mijn partner van kamperen houdt

Hobby & Sport

• Ben ik sportief? nee
• Het is voor mijn niet belangrijk of mijn partner sportief is
• De sporten die ik beoefen:Meditation
  I do walk alot and have started to cycle as well and can appreciate all kinds of environments, but I like nature best.
  I like to do everything slowly.
  I derive the most pleasure from taking things slow.
• Vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner aan sport doet?No
• Volg ik sporten (passief)?I love dancing best, whether it is in an icerink or just ballroom, or in a disco, tribal, or classical or whatever, when it is done with true passion and is danced from the heart I enjoy watching it, since then everything seems to flow and I feel a click inside me when everything fits and the entire picture is in harmony.
• Vind ik het van belang dat mijn partner op passieve wijze sport volgt?No
• Mijn hobbies:I like to write stories and poetry and sometimes dancing.
  I like to work with soapstone and sing.
• Vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner hobbies heeft?Yes
• Heb ik huisdieren?No, but I favour dogs and cats).
• Hoe belangrijk is het voor mij dat mijn partner van huisdieren houdt?important

Politiek

• Mijn politieke voorkeur is links van het midden
• De politieke voorkeur van mijn partner vind ik niet belangrijk
• Hoe ik de politiek volg:I do not follow any politics. It is not my cup of tea. I believe that our external world is an outward expression of our inner world. Therefore looking inside our-selves is the answer to whatever themes are showing up.
  Politics is immersed in the Newtonian paradigm and not focused on what is beneficial for everybody long term wise, not only citizens also the land and flora and fauna too. I try to focus on changing my own in-look, that changes my own outlook on life. In short, I am an in-volutionary and anarchist.
• in hoeverre vind ik het belangrijk dat mijn partner een interesse heeft in politiek?Not much. A better world starts with oneself. I like to find a partner that lives his talk. I suppose I am an anarchist in that I think if each person would get in tune with his higher self the world will regulate itself and the need to overpower, control others etc will become obsolete. Living one's life from the perspective of Love and Trust naturally is a farewell to the need to regulate or control others. There will be an innercheck and that is a check that chooses to heal and be loving, trusting, caring and compassionate.

Levenswijze

• Mijn geloof is anders
• Het geloof van mijn partner is anders
• Ik belijd mijn geloof als volgt in praktijk:I believe that each of us is asked to honor our own core truths.
  When these truths coincide with those I encounter that is a joyous occasion so we can travel our soul journey together and share our experiences with each other.
  My focus is on Oneness and to accept that each of us is Source of all that is and that about harmonizing the Divine Trinity inside of us.
  Be-ing present, conscious, aware, open, transparent, curious and interested and enthused and passionate and compassionate and gentle and kind and loving with our-selves & cells and others and our Uni-Verse is what matters for me.
• Mijn partner belijdt zijn/haar geloof als volgt:I hope that my would be partner simply beliefs in the Divine. That is for me of the utmost importance. My view is that religions will no longer be necessary. What I do belief is that there will come a divine sense in everybody when we all discover that divine spark within us. And that it then becomes natural to say grace, be loving, tolerant, caring, compassionate, trusting and most of all Loving towards oneself and one another, and the world around us. When my would be partner is of a certain faith I will respect his view and I like for him to respect my views on this as well.
• Mijn levensovertuiging is anders
• Mijn partner heeft als levensovertuiging anders

Levensvisie

• Ik ben een beetje huiselijk en beetje uitgaand persoon
• Mijn partner is een beetje huiselijk en beetje uitgaand iemand
• Spiritualiteit is belangrijk voor mij
• Spiritualiteit is belangrijk voor mijn partner
• Ik hou me als volgt bezig met spiritualiteit:I choose to focus on self-empowerment and self-response-ability and to look honestly at myself and others in each moment.
  
  To be grateful, to do what I love and to celebrate life and to enthuse others to do the same increases the joy and fulfillment I experience in my life increasingly.
• Het belang dat ik hecht aan samen dingen doen:I seek a person who embodies these ideals of mine too, with whom I can laugh and cry in equal measure, but there should be room to grow. And should the occasion arise for us to be a part for awhile, that is part of a process too.
  When you truly love a person it is also about allowing and supporting a person to live up to their full potential and in some instances of letting go.
  But the main thing is, simply to keep each other informed, inspired and enthused every step of the way.
  Physical distance does not mean a separateness of two hearts that beat as one, when you truly love someone.
• Het contact met mijn vrienden omschrijf ik zo:Not so much. But when we meet we simply continue as if no considerable time has elapsed between our last encounter.
  I value quality above quantity in my interactions with people.
• De betekenis van seksualiteit voor mij:Sexuality is part of a satisfying relationship that is built on love, trust, respect, reverence for each other.
  It simply naturally flows forth from a state of being in which I love a person very much.
  Sexuality is simply a natural occurrence, that naturally follows when you start a more permanent relationship.
  For me it is an expression of my love for someone on all levels. Everything should be in sync. ideally speaking and if not trying to make it so.
  That is something that I have to work on just as much as my would be partner.
  Relationships need to be nurtured and is at times work, but it is about those times when all of it flows that gives the juice in a relationship and is worth fighting for.
• Mijn werk:I am a welfare recipient.
• De rol van mijn werk ten opzichte van een relatie:Not relevant, since I got no job).
• Dit stop ik in mijn rugzak als ik een jaar weg zou gaan:Love, Trust, Gratitude, Abundance, Connectedness, Respect, Reverence, Inner Peace, Harmony, Tolerance, Wonder ( be amazed at simply being here ), Awareness, to be in the Moment.
• Ik verwen mijzelf zo:I buy books. I am sadly addicted, but I love this addiction of mine). The great thing is. I can give them away too) and make other people happy that way I hope as well).
• Mijn definitie van geluk:Happiness is simply being in tune and simply being in the moment.
• Dit is waar ik van geniet:A Smile
  Heartfelt Laughter
  Innocence
  Pureness
  Enjoying good food with friends
  Nature
  Music
  Dancing
• Zo ontspan ik me het liefst:Letting go of the need of having a to do list. Simply let the day unfold itself.
• Ik word ontroerd door:I am touched by people that have the right timing for the right act of selflessness, coming from a loving and caring heart.
• Ik kan me ergeren aan:If I am annoyed it is time for introspection. I know then something is being triggered. An aspect of my own unhealed part within myself that has not come to the light yet.
  I thank the person for helping me see and mirror a shadowpart within me that requires dusting off and putting it into the light.
• In een relatie kan ik me ergeren aan:No idea, never had a partner. I guess if that happens it says more about me than about him
• Hoe je een relatie levendig houdt:Surprises
  Little things, like simply being glad to put your loves laundry in the washing machine.
  Loving embrace
  Listening ear
  Touch
  A loving and caring and tantric sexual realtionschip
  etc.
• Ik geef (mijn) kinderen deze normen en waarden mee:Love, Integrity, Compassion, Trust, Connectedness with the Source, Tolerance, Respect and Reverence for Earth and the creatures living on it and Gratitude for God's affluence and Nature's abundance.
  I would regard any child a miracle and a blessing.
  I do not regard myself as a parent. I would see myself as a guardian who is being allowed to help a child, and fellow soul, in their journey to adulthood and Awareness.
• Hoe ik met tegenslagen om ga:Setbacks are my soul's checks to give me a wake up call. To snap out of something and truly try to learn what is put on my path in order to grow emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
• Mijn lijfspreuk:We were made of Stardust,
  so let's embrace Stardom.
  
  (me)
• Ik ben een avondmens
• Ik vind het niet belangrijk of mijn partner een ochtend- of avondmens is
• Waar ik om kan lachen:I like humor that does not try to harm or ridicule others or laugh at others misfortunes or pain.
  Some people can make me laugh alot and I experience that as a cleansing of my soul
• Het belang dat ik hecht aan humor in een relatie:Humor makes me relieve pressure and makes me feel more lighthearted.
  Taking the edge out of the seriousness but being able to laugh at ourselves makes it a more healthy relationship.
  Humor is like the mortar between bricks, it is vital for me in a relationship
  Simply that we both are able to put things into perspective.
  When there is no laughter in my relationship with a person then I seriously need to check out that relationship.

Hypothetische situaties

• Als mijn partner vreemdgaat, betekent dat voor onze relatie:I would open a dialogue with my partner and suggest counseling.
  To be curious what my partner finds lacking and to work on trust in our relationship.
  When there is no room for dialogue to part ways and to cut the cords that bound us and bless them for the experience.
• Wat ik vind van alleen op vakantie gaan:I love a person who enjoys the same holidays as me. But if they want to go alone or with friends than that is fine with me as well.
  I feel that love is about allowing each other a breathing space and room to grow).
• Wat ik doe als ik morgen plotseling miljonair zou zijn:I would go out and have an exquisite dinner with friends and celebrate the affluence in my life and the rest I would donate to charities Like Animal Welfare, WWF, Unicef.
  And I would enthuse parents to give their offspring the opportunities to help them develop their psychic powers and affinity with nature in a playful, creative way. I would make funds availabe for that and stuff like that.
• Wat ik ervan vind als mijn partner vaak erotische literatuur leest:Well then I would say it is time for a chat and afterwards some action.
  It might be that my partner somehow cannot totally relax with me or is perhaps bored and needs a bit more excitement or more gentleness or more connectedness, or it might be time to spice up our sex life or a different approach all together or more adventure).
• Wat ik doe als ik niet meer tevreden ben met mijn werk:I would address the problem. If the situation cannot be mended or altered I would take my leave and go work elsewhere.

Gezondheid

• Ik rook ja maar ben bereid te stoppen
• Mijn partner rookt ja maar is bereid te stoppen
• Ik drink niet
• Mijn partner drinkt af en toe voor de gezelligheid
• Ik besteed veel aandacht aan een gezonde levenswijze
• Mijn partner besteedt veel aandacht aan een gezonde levensstijl
• Hoe breng ik een gezonde levensstijl in praktijk?I eat biological produced food, I use biologically produced things to clean the house with, I try to be mindful of my usage of water.
  I slowly start to change my wardrobe into biologically manufactured clothes etc.
• Wat ik doe aan uiterlijke verzorging:I just dress basic. I describe it as casual-classic.
  I seldom wear make up
  I like to bathe
  When I go out I sometimes like to do the make up and stuff and dress more meticuously.
• Mijn partner en uiterlijke verzorging:I myself am not into following trends. I simply belief in the basics of simple hygiene, bodycare ( like taking showers and stuff) and clean clothes. But other than that it is up to him. In the animal kingdom, usually the male tries to make himself beautiful for the female.... (wink).